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Untying Knots

Design Your Own Life

The credit.

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“I wouldn’t know how strong I was if not for….” I call bullshit! Yes you would! That strength lived inside of you long before someone weaker than you provoked it to rise.
Stop giving abusers credit for your victory. They are nothing more than a sentence {a poorly constructed one at that} in the beautiful story of your life.
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Wounds to wisdom.

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Wounds to wisdom.
Scars to stars.
Pain becomes your pulpit to heal & raise yourself & others.
You can’t be bitter & blessed.
I choose blessed. Every. Damn. Day.
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What NOT to do to your kids.

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You need to be a bigger, better person. Your children deserve that much.

Built to last.

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And one day you wake up & step fully into your power. You realize how favored you are. And there’s no turning back. Ever.

Awake.

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To be woke is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself. To accept truths. The ugly ones & the beautiful ones.
Let the monsters stay asleep as they walk lifeless through their days. Empty things aren’t alive.
The dead souls crave how we live & sleep soundly.
Dream of sweet things my loves. Blessings chase us in our new freedom & wholeness. Joy & sleep are yours. Treasure them.

The new Grace.

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The version you were taught that ‘proper’ women keep secrets, bow down, step back, handle -his- affairs quietly.

Was quite simply wrong & utter bullshit.

Do you know that the action of grace is to honor or give credit to (someone or something) by one’s presence. That was not meant for or to pay homage to the abusers, liars & cheaters! Grace was meant to gift another struggling soul with your truth & in doing so you honor their stories & sorrows by saying, “yeah me too”, “we can heal together”.

So the next time someone tells you you’re not being graceful about the tragedy someone else has inflicted upon you… With lady like elegance, hold up your middle finger & proudly walk on into your liberated, free, joyful life, where truth, love & wholeness wins. Every. Damn. Time.

No more silence. No more secret keeping. Rise up, head up, speak up, walk on! You’re a healer & the world needs you my graceful sister.
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Ebb & flow.

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The balance. Giving yourself permission. Boundaries. The ebb & flow. The dance between give & take.
I think for so much of my life I gave – gave – gave – until the well was dry because I was really good at picking takers.
To have restored that balance in my life has meant a total shift and increased my capacity to love even more on a grander level but also to find the refuge in the arms of. or on the shoulder of. or in the whisper of a warm, inviting, loving ear to bend.
I love my tribe. Grateful beyond words.
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I wish.

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Morning wishes.

The devils slumber.

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Love stays awake until the pain is gone.
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