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Untying Knots

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Absent friends.

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You are no friend. Never were.
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If you thought to yourself, “I wonder if she’s talking about me!?”. Yes, you asshole, I’m definitely talking to you.
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Empaths never fail.

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It takes a celestial being to love the unloveable. To give everything to a taker. To work tirelessly to make another persons happiness & well being a priority.
I remind my beautiful soul, I didn’t fail at anything. I got right the only things that truly matter in this life.
Your failures don’t take anything away from how special I am. I am not a reflection of you & you could never live up to being mine.
Empaths never fail at love its something we always get right.
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Truth saves children.

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Truth is such a powerful thing that it not only saves you, it saves your children & everyone it touches.

We can. We do. Make beautiful things out of the mess.

When we break cycles we build healthy children who don’t have to experience life the same way we did.

Every day is a choice to move in pain or transform it into truth & strength.

I deserve to be healed & my children deserve me whole like this.
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Justice will be served.

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You get what you give and since they gave nothing that’s exactly what they’ll end up with.

They may act like everything is fine but remember it is just that, an act. The same dog and pony show you were a part of. Remember how you faked it on every level because it was easier to pretend than it was to accept the disgusting reality of who they are. Whether it was a parent, or a partner, you lived with them so the only emotion you should feel is pity for the poor person {supply} left to pick up where you left off.
Whether you believe in God, the universe, karma… Justice will be done on your behalf & for all their other victims. Abusers, cheaters, liars, manipulators, soul suckers, never get away with their sick twisted behavior.

Until every mask is pulled off, keep sharing, keep speaking your truths. We have others to save. Full focus on the imprisoned not the asshole warden.

Boots on bitches! Let’s get to work! .
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You’re so vein.

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I know it’s really hard for a narcissist to believe EVERYTHING isn’t about them but quite simply, they need to get the fuck over themselves.

We are here to speak truths to tell another hurting soul, “me too!, I understand, I have the same story, you’re not alone”.

Nothing we do has anything to do with the lowlife abusers but solely to do with reaching out a hand to help free a shackled sister.

We will not stop until the day of the narc ends, they are all exposed & the final one takes their last useless breath.

We rise with each truth. We heal with each conquered day. We are an army of survivors that seeks to save the lost. They will be their own demise so no sense spending another moment thinking on those weak bastards.

Carry on soul sisters. I got you. You got me #IAmMySistersKeeper
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The right love.

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Believe me when I say this.
You. Will. Be. Loved. Right!
You will be loved wholly, as you need, unconditionally.
There are good good, healthy, mature, whole, men in this world that know you showed up worthy & they want nothing more than to add to your life with consistency, devotion, faithfulness, support & that deep ‘at the soul level’ kind of love. A man who brings peace, passion & a beautiful normalcy to your world is a treasure. He loves your wild & your calm. He speaks your truths back to you. He unties knots in your soul with his gentle compassion. He is what we call “a real man”. .
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The other moron you were with!?…The abuser. The liar. The cheater. The narcissistic asshole. The pathetic boy… He will not even be a memory. He will be nothing & have nothing.
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Good love erases the irrelevant. .
You, my love, go off into lalaloveland where God, the universe, your family & friends & your soul has always prayed you to be. You were born to be loved by a good man & a good man you will have. Believe it sister! Until then… Keep growing, keep working, keep healing & becoming more of your authentic self. You deserve it & so does the good man waiting to be blessed by you. .
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#Empaths always win
#NarcsAreLosers eternally
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Hold tight.

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The next person to tell you “just let go, move on”, politely tell them to go fuck themselves. Why people think hurrying someone through healing is a kind gesture I’ll never understand. It’s in the pain that we find our truths. It’s in the struggle to reach the air, we breath in our triumph.
My advice.

Stop hurrying. Stop trying to fake it till you make it. Stop trying to smile through the pain. Stop avoiding healing your soul. Stop trying to leave the past in the past.

The past is where the answers are.

Go back before to figure out what got you here. Where the cycle began. Go as far back as you need to so that you can catapult yourself into your future full of healing, hope, joy & freedom.
Make ‘holding on’ about you!
A woman warrior friend told me recently, that we have to tell our story at least 90 times before we have power over it. 90! Until then we are a slave to it. You take your power back by repeatedly speaking truth over your life. As you talk it out, you get it out. That’s the essence of the ‘let go’. None of this has anything to do with our abusers, this is about us & our journey to purge what was inflicted upon us so that we may live the rest of our lives as if ‘they’ never happened to us. ‘Hold on’ & ‘Let go’ for YOU.
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He’s weak. You’re strong.

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Give your love to a man equally equipped to return it.
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This one is for you empaths who are ultimate givers & heavenly healers. You deserve another soul like yours.
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When he tells you, “You can’t fix me, everyone else has already tried”. Believe him!

Givers not takers.

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I’d say my bad but that’s just what you do when you love. You give. The trick is to find another giver, not a taker. An equal partner knows what a gift your love is & they cherish it, not destroy it. A mature, healthy person knows the power someone gives over when they trust you with their heart & they don’t take it for granted. If they do, they are sick & you need to be nothing but thankful to be rid of them. We {us empaths} will always move on because our love is our finest jewel & another will treasure it. Promise. ❤
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